To Disagree or Not To Disagree?
I wanted to do a little exploration this week into criticism and disagreeing with another's point of view. For our last formal writing assignment, we had the option to praise or criticize the author of our chosen article and while I opted out, I was intrigued to the extent that criticizing or disagreeing makes me nervous and how far I'm willing to go to avoid it, especially in person. Unsurprisingly, I think that disagreeing/arguing is something that is often taught as a "bad" or "scary" thing for people who grew up socialized as women. Women/fem folks are pushed in the direction of quiet, agreeable, and being a doormat when it comes to opinions or big decisions. I have a lot of opinions, thoughts, and perspectives on many topics, from the silly (like are ghosts real or what the best jellybean flavor is) to the very important (women's rights and police brutality) but I really only share those opinions with those I feel really safe with or people who alr...